My Efforts To Achieve my Goal

Nama: Annisa Melinda Kurniasari

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Understanding Ideals       
Understanding
      Ideals by definition are desires, hopes, or goals that are always in mind. No person lives without ideals, without doing good, and without a life attitude.
The ideal is the feeling of the heart which is a desire that is in the heart.
       Ideals which are part or one element of the view of human life, which is something that humans want to achieve through effort.

      Something can be called an ideal if there has been an effort to realize something that is considered an ideal.
 Factors that determine whether or not someone can achieve their goals include:
- Man himself,
- Conditions faced in order to achieve these ideals,
- How high are the ideals to be achieved.
- Strong desire.
- A tireless effort, like the proverb, assembling a raft first swimming to the shore, suffering from pain, then having a good time, then

        My dream is that I can become a psychologist. Therefore I would love to be the successful person I dreamed of with the business venture I have pursued from now and later. Everyone must want success from themselves and for their family. Every human being has different expectations. Humans without hope means that humans die in life.
         Hope comes from the word hope which means the desire for something to happen, so that hope means something desired can happen. Thus hope concerns the future.
        Expectations depend on the knowledge, experience, environment, and abilities of each. Hope must be based on trust, both self-confidence, and trust in God Almighty. In order for hope to be realized, it is necessary to work seriously. Humans must always pray. Because work and prayers are what causes our hopes to happen.

       In essence that hope is the desire to fulfill their needs.
According to Abraham Maslow according to the nature of human expectations or human needs are:
1. a) survival
2. b) safety (safety)
3. c) rights and obligations to love and be loved (beloving and love)
4. d) recognized environment (status)
5. e) the realization of ideals (self actualization)

  Try to get it
1. Be sure of your dreams
The most basic thing in achieving your goals is to be sure that it really is what you want. A person's ideals can cover many things, so that one person can have many dreams. If so, choose one ideal that you think you like the most and benefits. Confidence in these ideals will ensure that you do the right things to achieve rather than do things that are not necessarily related to achieving your goals.

2. Learn various things related to your dreams
In order to achieve goals, deeper knowledge is needed. So, study through the internet, books, or ask for help from people you think are trustworthy and knowledgeable in your area of interest. Take advantage of all the opportunities and facilities that exist to continue to gain knowledge.

3. Never give up
It is clear that the path to ideals will not be as smooth as imagined. Sometimes, even though you have really mastered the knowledge needed, there are still obstacles such as work environment, people who do not support, lack of self motivation, and so forth. The obstacles will always be there, but you can learn from those obstacles! Every time you encounter obstacles, try to overcome them. Once you are able to get past the various obstacles, you will learn more and more, gain more experience, and of course it is only a matter of time before you reach your goals.

 4. Always try
 Not easily satisfied with what is obtained, before the goal is achieved, will not give up to always try. Like you are picking the moon in the sky, even though it is difficult but slowly you may be able to pick it if indeed God wants it.

5. Not easily discouraged
. If it fails once, then don't get discouraged, because failure is a delayed success. The characteristics of people who have never been successful are easily discouraged.

6. Optimistic
 Avoid negative thinking, because negative thinking will make your life more negative, if you are optimistic then reality will continue to be optimistic. Then think positively about thinking so that your life will be more meaningful in the future. And what you think comes true in the future.

7. Submit to Allah SWT
 When you try, be patient and pray, but the last is surrender. Because whatever happens is only He who wants. Always be grateful for what you have.

8. Confidence
 Believe in yourself rather than believe with others indicates that you love yourself more than you love others. Even though what you are doing is wrong, surely it will make you a lesson in the future in self-introspection and make yourself more responsible for what you did in the past to be better in the future.

 Prayer
Pray to Allah SWT. When you try, be patient and pray, but the last is surrender. Because whatever happens is only He who wants. Always be grateful for what you have
Be diligent in praying for other people to succeed, because he will reward you with success. Like on her birthday, or whenever and wherever she is doing what she wants, and pray for good luck. Truth or truth is very important for humans. Everyone craves for it, because it has a special meaning for his life. He is the focus of all thoughts, attitudes and feelings.
In behavior, speech, human actions are always careful so that they do not deviate and the truth. Humans are aware that unrighteousness in acting, speaking and acting can dishonor or drop their names, such as proverbs that say, "once to the test, for the life of a person disbelief ", therefore, a pan if unrighteousness can result in anxiety, uncertainty, and grief.
  In Buddhism there is a teaching called "the eight main road". The contents, so that each follower has the right view, right actions, right livelihood, right mindfulness, and right concentration.
    The purpose of the teachings is that their followers do not experience grief, anxiety, and uncertainty.

Trust/ Support
     Trust comes from the word trust. It means recognizing or believing in the truth. Trust is matters relating to the recognition or belief in the truth. There are words that we often hear that he does not believe in myself, I do not believe he did it or that the news is not reliable.
        With the various examples of sentences that we often refer to in our daily utterances, it is clear to us that the basis of that belief is truth.
Knowledge received from others over authority is called trust. The greater the authority that tells about that knowledge the greater the trust.
In matters of religion each person is obliged to accept and respect the beliefs of the religious person. The basis is their respective beliefs.
Various Beliefs and Efforts to Improve It
   The basis of trust is truth. The source of truth is man.Trust can be divided into:
1. Trust in yourself
Self-confidence is instilled by every human person. Believe in yourself in essence believe in God Almighty, Believe in yourself, consider himself not wrong, win, he is able to do what is left or entrusted to him.
2. Trust in others
Believing in others can take the form of trusting your siblings, parents, teachers, or anyone else. Trust in other people certainly believes in their conscience, actions that are in accordance with their conscience, or the truth. There was a saying that the person was trusted because of what he said. For example, a person who promises something must be fulfilled, even though the promise is not heard by someone else, let alone make an appointment to someone else.
3. Trust in God
Belief in the almighty God is very important, because human existence is not by itself, but created by God. Trust means belief and recognition of truth. Trust is very important, because it is a strong rope that can connect the human feeling with his God. How God can help his people, if the people do not have faith in God, because there is no connecting rope that flows the power of his strength. Therefore, if humans try to get help from them, humans must trust God, because God is always with humans. Trust or recognition of the existence of the highest substance that creates the universe as a whole is a consequence of each religious community in worshiping the substance.
Various efforts are made by humans to increase their trust in God. The business depends on personal conditions, situations and environment. The business includes:
a) increase our devotion by increasing worship
b) increasing our service to the community
c) increase our love for fellow human beings by helping us. generous, and so on
d) reduce excessive appetite to accumulate wealth
e) suppresses negative feelings negatives like jealousy, envy, slander, and so on